Before using any new toys, be sure to familiarize yourself with the controls and how to use the toy.  Fumbling for “how to” in the heat of the moment can ruin the mood.  Be prepared and get to know the toy.  Turn it on, play with the speed controls, be able to control it without thinking about it and getting out of the moment with your partner!

Pulsing Clitoral Stimulators

This type of toy comes from several different brands, but the functions are basically the same.  They really hit the scene in the early 2010’s, according to Biird. They have a small, clit sized opening on them, behind which is a membrane that moves in and out.  This motion creates a suction with intensity and frequency that is typically adjustable.

Playing with these toys to familiarize yourself with them is very important.  These toys have controls that can be difficult to operate in the heat of the moment.  So, you need to know how to operate the toy without thinking too hard about it.  Turn it on, place your finger over the end.  Feel the pulsing on your finger.  Turn the toy up and feel how fast and how firmly it sucks.

Once you place the clitoral stimulator on the clit, your partner should let you know how it feels.  Communicate about faster or slower, and what she likes as you play with the toy on her clit.  Your partner should guiding the intensity.

One of the nice things about this type of toy is that you can fuck while your partner stimulates her clit with the toy.  It’s great for foreplay too!  It’s a great, fun suction toy!

Pussy Pumps

Pussy pumps are another example of a fun suction toy.  These differ from the clitoral stimulators in that they suction on the entire pussy.  Typically, they have a cup that covers the entire labia and clitoral hood.  The purpose is to engorge the vaginal area with blood to increase sensitivity and pleasure.

While pusys pumps are fun suction toys, caution should be used.  You can suction too hard, causing a distension.  Distention is where the inside comes outside.  The goal is for the area to be engorged with blood, not bruised and pulling the insides out.

Because the toy covers the clitoris, it will engorge that as well.  This will increase the pleasure for your partner.

Your Mouth

This is probably the most fun.  Cunnilingus should always have an element of sucking involved.  Using your mouth to suck on your partners pussy is amazing.  There’s a whole post on cunnilingus, so we won’t go over it again.  But adding suction to the clitoris adds a new dimension of pleasure for your partner.  The intimacy of using your mouth to do it only adds to the heat of the moment.  Of all the fun suction toys, the mouth is the most fun.

Conclusion

No matter what toy you try and add to your sex life, communication with your partner is the best way to get the most out of the toys.  Using a clitoral stimulator, pussy pump, or your mouth, you have to communicate with your partner.

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