Suction toys are a lot of fun! Using them on your partner and yourself can spice things up in the bedroom. From pulsing clitoral stimulators, and your mouth, suction toys will elevate the bedroom games! Before using any new toys, be sure to familiarize yourself with the controls and how to use the toy. Fumbling […]
Free Use and Power Exchange
Power exchange and free use are two concepts that can be a significant part of a consensual, healthy BDSM dynamic. Power exchange refers to the exchange of power between two individuals in a sexual relationship. Free use involves one partner being available for sexual use at any time. However, it is important to approach these […]
Consent, SSC, and its role in BDSM
Consent in a BDSM relationship Consent is a crucial aspect of any sexual encounter. This is especially true in the BDSM community, where power dynamics and role-play are central to the experience. BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, and Masochism. It encompasses a wide range of activities and practices that involve consensual exploration of power, […]
DIY Hidden Hanging Mount with Smoke Detector
Having a hidden hanging mount in your ceiling can be a secret source of fun! Put thought into where to place the hook, how to build the hook into the ceiling, and what you can do with the hook once it’s in the ceiling. We’ve discussed BDSM in the past, and this will touch on […]
How to Talk About Sex!
Talking about sex seems to be a stumbling block seen a lot online. Reading through social media comments, you can see people struggling with questions. Most of these can be answered with “talk to your partner”. But how and when, and how do you keep your feelings from getting hurt? There’s other posts on here […]