In my life, I do my best to treat my lady really well. Her love language is acts of service, so I do things for her. I take care of her car by keeping it clean and full of gas every time I can. I help keep the house clean, I cook for the family sometimes, I take care of the kids for her. My post on communication and sex is good start, but good communication is important for a great relationship as well.

We need to pay attention to treat our women well. Listen to what she’s telling you, make sure you are hearing not just the words, but the subtext as well. We have to trust that they are telling us what they mean, and act on that. I strongly suggest you figure out her love language. I would find the best way to do this is to simply take the online tests and see where you both end up. I’m not going to cover the love languages here. But I will say that learning her love language is an easy way to make the little things count.

I have found that little things, truly little things, make a big difference. Open doors for her, hold her hand, push the cart, help her around the house. All these things make a big difference. But it doesn’t all have to be work! When it’s appropriate, give her little butt a smack, glide your hands over her pussy. Again, when it’s appropriate (which you should communicate about boundaries together).

I’ve also found that being protective is a very big part of making your lady feel secure and safe. I know that’s pretty straightforward, but protect her. When you are walking, put yourself between any perceived threat and her. Sometimes it’s subconscious, it is with me. That’s one of the acts of service I do for her.

Do keep in mind that your way of communicating your love doesn’t have to match the way you are shown love. Me doing acts of service for my SO doesn’t mean she does acts of service for me. My love language is touch, and she knows this, so she touches me. And she likes when I touch her because she knows what it means.

I know this blog is about sex, but sex requires a relationship. Being in a relationship is more than sex, I know you all know that, but good advice is good advice. Learning to listen to your SO and respond in ways that make her smile and keep her happy are easy things to do. it just takes a little bit of effort. So, knowing we need to treat our women well outside the bedroom, it’s not hard to see why it’s so important.

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