Grafenberg Spot Anatomy

The g-spot is typically just inside the vagina, on the inside front wall.  If your partner is lying down on her back, insert a finger inside her with your palm up.  Feel what is the top of the inside of the vagina in this position.  For the first roughly 1-3 inches, there is a spongy texture.  This texture is the g-spot area.  Anatomically, this area is an erectile tissue that surrounds the urethra.  It is close to the erectile tissue in our penises.

As we know from the clitoral discussion linked above, you can see that the clitoris passes over and wraps partially around the urethra and that erectile tissue.  So, rubbing this tissue not only stimulates the nerves in the erectile tissue, it also stimulates the clitoris from the inside.

Visit the porn website of your choice, and search the site for “how to make a woman squirt”.  Once you’ve found a suitable video, notice that in all of them they are stimulating the area we are discussing.  Some technique is different for sure, but the basic anatomy that these women are having stimulated is the same.  They are stimulating the erectile tissue in the spongy area, and the inside of the clitoris.

G-Spot versus Groove Tunnel

There is a new name of the G-spot that is a better description.  The new name is the “groove tunnel”.  The new name makes sense to me as it’s more of a tube or sleeve than a single spot.  This article has a good discussion about this.  Because it’s more of an “area” than a single spot and it’s tunnel shaped, the groove tunnel is an apt name.  Although I’m not sure the name will ever catch on, it’s more descriptive for sure!

Stimulating the Groove Tunnel

As we have discussed in the past, don’t rush into anything.  Foreplay will never not be important.  You need to have properly warmed up your partner, and read the anatomy section above.  Get in between her legs or lie next to her.  Stimulate her whole body.  Touch and caress her breasts, her skin everywhere.   Work your way to her pussy, touching around until you get to her clit.  stimulate that for a little while.  Bring her up and down on her path to an orgasm.  Don’t frustrate her, but work her up then down.

You should know your partner by now, what she likes and doesn’t.  You are going to add something to your session.  Put one finger inside her, palm up.  Gently stimulate her using pressure on the roof of her vagina, maybe a “come here” motion.  As she gets more turned on, use two fingers.  Pay attention to your partner as she gets close to orgasm.  It may feel like she’s going to pee.  You are going to have to tell her to just relax.  Let it happen.  If this is something that you’ve never done with your partner, you need to be prepared for a big orgasm.

The Orgasm

Once her orgasm is close, you can really apply some pressure.  The groove tunnel you are pressing in is very strong.  You’ll be surprised how hard you can stimulate here.  She’s going to have a lot of very strong feelings and her orgasm should make her whole body rock.  When her orgasm is done, you have to stop.  You will know, she will fight you.  We all get too sensitive after an orgasm.  Going from pleasure to pain in a very short time.  Be sure to follow her led here.  She will communicate if she wants you to touch her or not.

Aftercare

Always take care of your partner after an intense session.  Because this was likely very intense for her, get her some water and some baby wipes (because you know to be prepared with your sex kit).  Hold her, let her quietly process the intensity of what she’s just hopefully experienced.

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