Head, Neck and Face Sweet Spots

We will start at the top. Her face and head are covered in hot spots.  You can gently touch her almost anywhere on her face.  Dragging your fingertips might be something she enjoys and turns her on.  Lips are an obvious area to pay attention to.  Kiss her all over her face.  Paying attention to her earlobes and behind her ears as well.

Her neck deserves special attention.  Kissing and touching her neck is a real turn on.  Some women like being grabbed and or choked.  Discuss this with her before you try it.  Communicating is very important!  There is a small part of this post about choking.  However, the neck is typically a very erogenous zone.

Her Extremities Erogenous Zones

Think of all the places we typically protect.  The wrist, the crook of the elbow the backs of her knees, the shoulders.  These are all erogenous zones.  During foreplay, kiss her in these areas to get her motor running.  These are her hot spots.  Your partner may dislike some touching in some areas, so you need to pay attention to her reaction to your actions.

During sex, grabbing her wrists is sometimes a turn on.  Be careful with this.   You need to have communicated about this before so that she isn’t surprised by being restrained.  Again, communication is key.  It’s not all about being rough either.  Being gentle during sex is just as awesome and fun as being rough!

Her Core

The erogenous zones on her core (except for the genitals) are breasts her back.  Touch and kiss all around her breasts.  Don’t make a b-line for her nipples.  Everything in due time.  Kiss and caress under and around her breasts.  Gently touch, using your knowledge of how she responds to lead you.  Let her guide you without her consciously having to guide you.

If she’s lying on her front, then her back is where you are going to work.  Kiss your way down her back, paying attention to the area right under her butt.  This area called the gluteal fold is sensitive.

Genital Erogenous Zone

This is the obvious one.  This, like her breasts, you cannot just go at it.  Warm up!  The inside of the thighs, the labia, the clit are all there to play with.  Kiss them, touch them gently, lick them.  When you and your partner discussed this, she should have discussed this with you.  Pay attention to her reactions to what you are doing to guide you.  This is universal advice.

In summary, remember to watch your partner for cues as to how to please her.  Know the areas of her body that are more sensitive than others.  Learn what she likes, and do that.  Often.  Lots of these places you can touch in public without raising an eyebrow too.  Her shoulders, her wrists, the small of her back are all totally acceptable in mixed company.

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