Facials

Giving a facial is a dominant act. You stop fucking, and you tell her you want to cum on her face. You both maneuver into a position where you are over her (dominance). One of you has to continue to stimulate your dick (hands or mouth) until you are ready to cum, then you aim and let loose. Some women really enjoy this, some tolerate it, and some hate it. Cum is difficult to get out of hair, and burns the eyes (or so porn has told me). There’s also cleanup, which is something you should be prepared for.

Body Shots

Cumming on her body feels like marking her. It feels like “This is mine, I have marked her as mine”. In my experience, it also turns her on to watch you cum on her. It is very satisfying to cumo on her stomach or back (depending on the position you are in!) and watch your cum mark her. Have her pump your dick with her hands to finish you onto her body. Deciding where do you want to cum on her is fun too. Cum on her breasts, her stomach, her ass, her back, or her feet.

Inside Her

In Her Mouth

Cumming in her mouth is another dominant act in my opinion. I think there’s an argument saying that having the penis in your mouth gives you the power, but I would say giving a blowjob is a submissive act. Everyone will have their own opinion on this. A lot of people do this because it’s pregnancy safe, and requires little cleanup. This is my opinion, but spitters are quitters.

In Her Ass

Cumming in her ass obviously takes preparation for anal. Assuming all that has been done, cumming in her ass is something that feels incredible. In my experience the orgasms from anal for her are much stronger than vaginal ones. When you are asked “Where do you want to cum?”, you can reply with something really aggressive dominant like “I want to fill your ass up”. From what I’ve read online some women can feel your dick pulsing inside their ass, and some cannot. When we have anal sex, my partner can feel my dick pulsing and loves it. There is a bit of cleanup involved with anal in general, adding a little bit of ejaculateisn’t going to change that.

In Her Pussy

When you are comfortable with your partner and you are comfortable with the birth control methods being used, this is the Holy Grail. Biologically, we are wired to cum in our partners pussy. She will feel you pulsing, you will feel her squeezing and pumping. Having orgasms together is incredible, and I would hope that everyone gets to experience that in their lifetime. Cleanup isn’t bad depending on your ejaculate volume.

Being asked where you want to cum is hot. Sex is messy, cum is messy. Preparation is one of the keys to great sex. As always, if you have a question or a comment please feel free to contact us on the Contact Us page! We love feedback!

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So, the time has come. She’s hinted and moved that way. Her head is getting close to your dick, you can feel her breath on you. She finally touched your cock to her lips, opens her mouth and you gently slide….into her teeth. Now, you need to have a good talk about blowjobs.

Don’t Criticize

She knows your cock hit her teeth, she can feel it. You should just tell her if something is uncomfortable. Scraping against teeth falls into this category for sure, so just gently tell her. “Hey, I love you giving me head, but I hit your teeth. Maybe we can try some different things?” A statement like that opens her up to talk about why you hit her teeth. If your dick is too big, then you might just have to accept it. It’s possible she’s having a bad day and her jaw hurts. That’s OK too, but communicating about it is the best solution. For example, my SO focuses on my head, and uses her hand for the rest of the shaft. BJ’s are amazing, and I honestly couldn’t tell with my eyes closed where her lips stop and her hands start.

The important things to keep in mind when you are having this discussion are:
1) Don’t make her feel bad about what’s happened, that will take away her pleasure in pleasing you
2) Always have suggestions as to how she can change what’s she’s doing to please you better

Making her feel bad about what’s happened will make her feel bad. She was giving you a blowjob because she wanted to make you feel good, and failed. So you have to be gentle when you talk to her about it. You can’t just jump in with “that wasn’t very good, you used your teeth”. Saying anything like that is unproductive. What you need to say are things like “That felt great, and I love you wanting to please me, but let’s work together to find a way that feels better for me” or “I love your desire to please me, but my dick hit your teeth. Let’s try to find a position where that doesn’t happen”. Which leads us to the second point.

Teach in a Positive Way

Always have suggestions ready to help guide her when she’s doing something you don’t like. You will need to work with her to get it right, she does not have a dick and doesn’t know what it feels like to have one sucked. So, you may have to communicate some basic things to her about your anatomy, like where you are most sensitive, things like that. Make sure you have your personal preferences known as well. You need to know what you like and be able to articulate it so you can suggest to her what feels good for you! Not knowing means you two need to work together learn what feels good and works for both of you. I know, it’ll be a burden for you to have practice blowjobs, but together you can do it!

Some things that you can suggest are having her focus on the head of your cock because that’s where the most nerves are. You can have her use a lot of spit, which will help lube everything and slide into her mouth easier. Using her hands in conjunction with her mouth is a great thing to talk about too.

Relax and Enjoy!

“She’s giving you head, now what’s your job?” is where we started, so let’s talk about what to do when there’s not been anything wrong. Your job is to relax and enjoy the blowjob. Be vocal about it when she’s doing something you like. Let her know if something hurts so she’ll stop. She wants to pleasure you when she’s giving you head, so just enjoy it. You should always communicate when you are going to cum. I can promise you that it’s a surprise she does not want.

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