The Whole Kit

Keep the items you’ll use for sex in a convenient place, together.   Sometimes, the toys can get out of hand.  Currently, that’s my situation.  I am looking for a good way to organize all our toys right now.  So, keep in mind storage and organization when you plan your kit.  We’ve talked about the toys before, so this post will focus more on cleanup than kit contents.

Cleanup Contents of the Kit

Wet Wipes

Most important, wet wipes.  Baby wipes, whatever you want to call them.  They pick up bodily fluids well, they are the right size, and they are convenient.  Have these on the bed with you or nearby so you can clean your partner up quickly.  When you cum in or on your partner, using a wet wipe to clean her up will help her avoid getting an IUD.

Towels

Towels are for both you and your partner.  If you don’t have a sex blanket to keep the bed dry, use towels.  Once you’ve wiped down both yourself and your partner, dry off with a towel.  Dry off your sweat from the exertion and fund of the sex.  Keep a couple of small towels and a large towel handy.  It is a small thing that is a huge help!

How to Cleanup Your Partner

You have to be careful when you are cleaning up your partner.  Some women get UTI’s easier than others.  A UTI is a Urinary Tract Infection.  They are painful.  You can see on this post the basic anatomy of your partner (and in the photo above).   Pay attention to how you wipe your partner.  You CANNOT go from bottom to top. Keep anything from the anus area and as much of the vulva as you can away from the “top” of the vagina.

Your goal is to keep the bodily fluids away from the urethral opening.  Keeping this clean will save her from a lot of pain and having to deal with a UTI.   Cleaning up your partner and doing it correctly is a big part of aftercare as well.

It is best for your partner to urinate after sex.  This Healthline article discusses this at #2.  But, that article is non-commital about peeing after sex.  Flushing her privates after sex makes sense.

Aftercare

Cleanup is a big part of aftercare.  Cleaning your partner gives you the opportunity to care for a part of her she doesn’t share with many.  Cleanup can be intimate and fun, I know we try to make it as fun and intimate as we can!  Aftercare is not just for dominant/submissive relationships.  It is for any relationship.

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