Sex is messy

Prepare for how messy sex can be. Think about the things you like to do during sex, and what you partner likes as well. For example, if your partner doesn’t swallow and you like blowjobs, have something ready to help her clean up. If you both like anal, which we know requires a lot of lube, have extra hand towels ready. Place the used or messy toys on a hand towel laid out on the bed. Lay a towel or a sex blanket under her before sex starts to keep the bed clean. Also, having baby wipes ready to clean up is a simple thing to do that will be appreciated.

Clean your partner after sex. It is an act of aftercare. But, don’t be bad at it. No one wants a UTI, and if you clean her poorly you could contribute to one. Never wipe back to front. Never clean her pussy with a wipe that’s been used anywhere else. Just grab a new wipe, and clean all round, including all the labial folds and around her clitoris.

Sex is fun

Toys

For some couples, toys are ubiquitous and will be present at every session. For others, they will make a rare appearance. So, have the toys in an organized place. For example, I’m working on finding an upright wardrobe travel chest to purpose into our toy chest. I plan on adding power to it. It will also have cut outs for each shape of the toy. Have the toys together keeps them organized, and makes gathering them up for the session so much easier.

Move the toys to the bed, or nightstand. Use a towel to put them on the bed. This not only keeps them together, but the towel will work to keep them from getting lost in the bed. Keep a clean hand towel on the bed as well for the used toys to be placed on. Being prepared for sex is not difficult, it just takes a bit of planning. Keep everything organized before sex means everything will go more smoothly during the session.

Equipment

Get your equipment ready before the session as well. It’s all part of being prepared for sex. When I speak of equipment, I am referring to things like blindfolds, wrist and ankle cuffs, a sex swing, under bed straps, basically anything that’s not a toy. Getting this ready and setup will make the session go so much smoother. When you use this type of equipment, keep in mind that there are things that need to be communicated in the dom/sub relationship discussed here.

Being Prepared for Sex

The key to all this is just being prepared for whatever you may want to do. Be ready for whatever you might reasonably expect during a session. Sex is messy, sex is fun, and being prepared for sex is sexy (at least according to my girl).

There are things that you can do outside the bed in the bedroom to make it more inviting. Here is a good article on Prague Post with some great ideas. Turn your bedroom into a place where you either sleep or have sex. Mentally, this will train your brain for sleep or sex in that room.

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