Anatomy of the penis. Let’s talk about it. We’ve all got one, but there’s some things we may not know. We’ll cover basic anatomy, what the parts do, and what makes us feel good. We will also talk about when things go wrong, and some basic facts that sometimes get overlooked about our Johnson’s. The goal of this post is to educate about what we have, what feels good, and why it feels good.

Anatomy Overview

The picture above shows the basic anatomy of the male reproductive system. We’ll get into more detail below about the anatomy of the penis. As you can see, there are several parts inside and outside the body cavity. The scrotum protects and regulates the temperature of the testes. This fascinates women when your balls just move around on their own. This is also why they shrink when they are cold and hang lower when it’s hot. It should also be noted that there are men that are “grow-ers” and “show-ers”. Grow-ers are small flaccid, and grow sometimes multiple times their flaccid size. Show-ers are roughly the same size flaccid or erect, the only difference is hardness.

As you can see, there’s a few reproductive parts inside. We tend to think of just the penis and the scrotum/testes as our reproductive parts. But there’s more to it than that, and more ways to please us than just our penis.

The vas deferens carries the sperm from the testes (5% of the ejaculate volume) to the urethra and the seminal vesicles. As the sperm passes through the seminal vesicles in the vas deferens, the seminal vesicles add the seminal fluid (50-65% of the ejaculate volume) to the ejaculate. Then the prostate adds some more fluid (roughly 20-30% of the ejaculate volume). When you ejaculate, the prostate squeezes and closes off the bladder from the urethra, pushing the ejaculate out of the body. Because the prostate closes off the bladder, it’s not possible to pee and ejaculate at the same time. You can read more about this at Medical News Today.

Shaft Anatomy

Erections are the result of blood being pumped into the penis. the “top” of the shaft is made up of a structured spongy material called the Corpus Cavernosum. This spongy material fills with blood and makes your dick erect. When it fills with blood, there is a membrane that traps the blood inside the penis. Along the bottom, where the urethra is, there’s a different kind of erectile tissue that isn’t as firm so the urethra can pump out ejeculate.

Now that we’ve covered some of the basic anatomy of the penis and sex organs, we should use this time to cover some more medical information. When you get a vasectomy, the doctor cuts and ties off the vas deferens inside the scrotum. They make a small incision on each side of the scrotum, pul out the vas deferens. Then it is cut and knotted off, and in my case cauterized. If you are considering getting this done, my experience was stellar. The anticipation leading to the event was worse than the event itself. Doctor’s require you to have 24 “emissions” to clear out the pipes before you come back for the verification test. This is what I called “the fun part”.

Erectile Dysfunction

Something that no one wants to talk about is ED, Erectile Dysfunction. When our little soldiers can’t perform, it’s time to talk to a doctor. There are some things we can pay attention to before we talk to the doctor about the issue. For example, notice if you have trouble with morning wood or not. Notice if you have difficulty getting hard at different times of the day. Pay attention to non-sexual things, like stress, eating habits, emotional state, and exercise habits. Any changes in these things can be clues as to what is causing our problems. There will be a longer post about ED at a later date. Keep and eye out for that!

Now we need to talk about pleasure. Just like the post about women’s anatomy, discussing what feels good and what doesn’t in the context of the anatomy of the penis is one of the main goals of this blog.

We’ll start at the tip and work our way down because 90% of the nerves in our penis are in the first 1-2 inches. The head, or glans, should get a lot of attention from your significant other. Experience has taught me that the frenulum is the magic spot. There’s a concentration of nerves there, on the bottom of the shaft right were the glans connects to the shaft. The shaft and the balls feel good too, but the glans and the area right below the head are the highest concentration of nerves. If it’s a hand job or a blow job, asking her to concentrate on these areas will feel great. But that doesn’t mean your SO should ignore the balls and the shaft. It all feels good, so don’t be afraid to communicate with her (discussed here)!

Prostate and Butt Stuff

Butt stuff. Some people don’t enjoy this, and that is OK. However, there are a lot of pleasure nerves inside your ass. Including the prostate. If you doubt me, look up “prostate milking” on your favorite porn website. If you expect your lady to let you play with her ass, you should think about letting her play with yours. You can experience a lot of pleasure from “butt stuff”. Don’t be afraid of it because of social stigma. Who cares what you do in your bedroom, let your freak flag fly high!

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It’s Bigger than You Think

I find that typically, more people think the clitoris is only the glans that you see above the labia minora. We discussed that in this post. It is the most obvious outward part of the clitoris. So you can see in the diagram, here is a LOT more within that you can stimulate. The way the clitoris lies behind the labia majora inside the body gives you lots of ways to pleasure your woman. Our bodies concentrate most of our pleasure nerves on the end of our penis. In women, that’s in the first 2 inches of the vagina and clitoris. Because the clitoris position, and understanding the g-spot is within that range backs this up.

As women become aroused, the clitoris would be analogous to our penis. It will become engorged with blood. Because the glans firms up and sticks out like our dicks do, and the crus clitorus and corpus cavernosum both will enlarge inside and become a lot more sensitive. The bulb of vestibule on both sides are erectile tissue as well. So these will enlarge and put pressure on the crus clitoris against both sides of the outside of her vaginal canal. You can see in the diagram that inserting your penis into the vagina would push the bulb of vestibule outward, pressing them against the crus clitoris.

The Clit

The glans clitoris is what generally receives the most attention. It’s the outward presence of her arousal, it’s fun to play with and can provide a great deal of pleasure. In my experience, using my fingers to press the g-spot using a “come here” motion works wonders. As does inserting two fingers inside the vagina and spreading them apart and using the “come here” motion again. I would suggest doing either or both of these things while performing cunnilingus. There will be a post coming about cunnilingus.

Most women cannot orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone, they require some sort of clitoral stimulation. There have been studies that suggest the vaginal orgasm doesn’t exist. In my experience, vaginal orgasms do exist, but they are different from the clitoral and anal orgasms. As you can see, this study agrees with my experience. Do not be discouraged if your woman is like this. It’s similar to you having sex without using your penis (remember, the clitoris is analogous to the penis). So it’s not about you, it’s just how she’s built. The anatomy and pleasuring of the clitoris is something we should talk to our partners about. So, find out what she likes, what feels good for her, and do more of all of that! I’ve found that we discover things together that she often didn’t even know felt good!

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In this post we talked about the fact that there are 3 holes. That’s blunt but accurate. All these descriptions will assume you are looking at your girl where she is lying down on her back, legs spread. So that the top is her stomach and her ass is the bottom. Like the photo below:

Top to Bottom Description

The top is the mons pubis. Mound of venus is the what would be the front of the vaginal area if she’s standing, where the hair is and the area that slightly protrudes (some more, some less) when she’s lying down. It’s the small mound above the clitoral hood, where the pubic hair begins. That photo has the mons pubis under a pair of panties.

Under the mons pubis begins the area called the Vulva. That is what everyone calls the vagina or the pussy. At the top of the vulva is the clitoral hood. The clitoral hood covers and protects the clitoris when she is not aroused. As your woman gets aroused, the hood clitoris will become engorged and will push out from underneath the clitoral hood.

That brings us to the clit, the fun button. The main event. The clit has as many nerves as the penis. It will be firm and soft at the same time, and will elicit a response based on what you are doing to it. After we cover anatomy and other basics, I intend to cover techniques as well. It is important to note, do not get aggressive with her clit until she is ready. Too much too soon can and will ruin the moment.

Labia And Pussy

Now we’ve come to the labia majora and labia minora. The labia majora are the soft areas very near the labia minora. It’s the skin between the top of the legs where they attach to the hips and the labia minora. The labia minora are what everyone refers to as the pussy lips. Inside the labia minora is the vaginal opening and the urethral opening.

Within the labia minora and above the vaginal opening is the urethral opening. As part of the sexual organs, it’s sensitive but not really part of the sex act (unless you are into water sports, I’m not and neither is my SO). Obviously, she pees from the urethral opening.

This brings us to the vagina. Soft, strong, juicy, tasty. It produces all the moisture that lubricates sex, and has thousands of nerves for her pleasure. the opening will usually not have a smooth circular or oval shape within the labia minora.

Labia are all Different

Always remember, every woman looks different. Some have longer labia than others, some have more pronounced clitorises, some have larger openings than others. If you get the opportunity to SEE a woman’s vagina, you better do your best to make her understand that it’s beautiful, it’s part of her, and you appreciate her sharing that very private thing with you.

Below the vagina is the perineum, also called the taint. It’s the area below the vulva, which stops where the labia come together, and above the anus. The perineum is sensitive to touch, and can feel good to play with as well. Often, this is where women tear during birth.

Her Little Balloon Knot

Then there’s the anus. The anus is full of pleasure nerves as well, although not to the density of the vulva. I know what everyone is thinking “But, Admin, girls don’t poop!”. Well, yes, they do. You can play with this area in a similar way you do the vagina. You can apply pressure, you can gently enter, you can eat her ass (analingus or rimming), you can penetrate digitally, and or course there’s anal sex.

This post on external vaginal anatomy is designed to be a reference for all future posts about the female anatomy. Hopefully, it is detailed enough that it answers most questions.

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