Location Risks

Sex in forbidden places carries risk. These risks are greater the more public the location is. For example, getting a blowjob in a public park at 3:00 in the afternoon is a bad idea. But, do not put yourself in a situation where kids could see. Fucking in the woods off a rarely used trail is probably safe. It’s all about the perceived risk during the act.

Make sure you choose a place that’s safe from prying eyes. You might start in your own house with the windows open. Then graduate to more public and risky places, like trails, movie theaters, or planetariums. It’s just really important that you don’t get caught. For example, there was a British couple that got caught fucking inside the church behind the Virgin Mary statue. The same situation in the United States would likely carry much striffer penalties.

Being Discreet

There are lots of ways to be discreet when having sex in a public(ish) place. For example, in a movie theater don’t sit in the front row. Sitting in the back means no one will be between you and the screen. If you are outside, get off the trail. If that’s not possible, only expose the parts necessary to fuck. Only pull her pants down to mid-thigh, or only take your dick out through the zipper.

Using your hands is always an option. Keeping them hidden under a coat or blanket, you can get away with a lot. Make sure your partner can be quiet and control the outburst of an orgasm. Sudden noises in a quiet place will draw unwanted attention.

Getting Caught

You are going to have to play this by ear. If the person you are talking to seems sympathetic, play on that. Talk to them person to person and see if you can just not do this again. Hopefully, they will work with you on the infraction and just ban you from the location or something similar. If the employee is talking about calling the police, then you need to be quiet. An admission of guilt at this point will not work in your favor. I am not a lawyer, but once the police get involved I would go silent.

If the person catching you is another adult and they don’t plan on calling anyone, be nice. This is the most likely scenario. But, it’s very likely that there is a bit of jealousy on their part. Sex in forbidden places requires an adventurous and fun partner, and an incredible amount of trust. My partner and I have had sex in forbidden places many times. If there is a confrontation from whomever saw you and your partner, avoid it getting physical. With the ever present cell phone, there will be video of the altercation. None of us want that.

Rewards

As we all know, sex is it’s own reward. A lot of times, the act is spontaneous. Because of this, you are going to want to talk about boundaries before the act. Communicating your limits and respecting her limits will go a long way in maintaining her trust. Sex in forbidden places will be something your two giggle and possibly brag about for years. I know in my case, there are times when I simply cannot keep my hands off my partner. Because of the way it works for us, we know each others limits.

The rewards of showing your partner that you cannot keep your hands off her are long term and short term. For the long term, it’s yet another session of pleasure for both of you. Short term, there’s a cascade of hormones (discussed here) that will reinforce positive emotions and connections with you. This reinforcement is a long term and a short term reward.

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• Oral only quickies are a good alternative depending on time
• Skirts are made for quickie sex
• Shower sex
• Don’t get undressed, only expose what you need to expose
• Beds, counters and tables tend to be “fuck height” so use them

As with all my posts, I’m going to first talk about communication. It’s important to communicate with your woman about sex and needs and wants, as the linked blog post says. But, the discussion should also talk about frequency and timing as well. I read something a long time ago that stuck with me, it said “Sex is like money and air. When you have enough, it’s no big deal, but when you don’t, it’s a BIG DEAL”. So, let’s talk about quickie opportunities and how to take advantage of them, and how to turn your lady on so she’s ready to be taken.

It should all start with the way you normally communicate. If it’s texting than sext her. If it’s both of you in the same house, casually tell her what you are going to do. In my blog posts about sex, like the bondage post, there is a lot of focus on never taking your fingers off of her body. With a quickie, there’s no time for that much setup. So you have to turn her on and get her running other ways. Communicate to her that you want her. Be specific, and have a plan. If there are kids in the house, plan for them to watch a movie at XX time. Then start a few hours before by touching your lady as she walks by. Stop her in her tracks and tell her you need to be inside her.

As the time approaches, start sharing little pieces of the plan with her. Tell her about an hour before that at XX time, she needs to be ready to get fucked. Send her a message that is suggestive or a short description of what you are going to do to her. Something like “I’m going to bend you over the bed and have my way with you”. It doesn’t have to be super descriptive. Just show her repeatedly that you are thinking of little else. You need her. You desire her. She’ll be turned on. She’ll be wet and ready by the time the movie starts.

The kids are busy. The movie is playing. But you know you don’t have very long, so lets get to it. Depending on how you played your cards, she should be very ready for you to fuck her by this point. usually, I talk about how foreplay is very important, and it is. But sometimes you just need to fuck. Now is that time. My advice is to unleash your inner beast. Stand behind her, pull her pants and underwear down as you grab her boobs from behind with your other hand. Then push her down onto the bed and rub your hard cock on her wet pussy. Now that you know she’s hot and ready, push yourself into her.

You should know your partner well enough by now to know what turns her on. Knowing what she needs to get going is very important, you want her to be as satisfied as you are.

Quickies can be fun and spontaneous too. Buildup is important. But it’s always best to have a little sexual tension. If you are like me with a high libido, then you are almost always telling your woman how hot she is and how much you need her anyway. So communicating that isn’t something I have to do often. My SO has a high libido as well. It’s a great thing when we only have a few minutes we can literally pound one out. We’ve done it with a house full of people, slipped away and both had a quick orgasm. For us, it’s foreplay for the next time we can have a longer session.

I don’t want anyone to think that sex can’t be spontaneous and fun for everyone involved. There’s no reason to think that you can’t grab a quickie anytime you think there’s time. Rooms have doors for a reason, set boundaries with the kids, and have some fun. Just remember, now (or anytime) is a great time for a quickie!

For further research, here is a good article from Men’s Journal about quickies. As always, if you have questions, check out our Contact Page and shoot us a message. We’d love to hear from you!

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