Head, Neck and Face Sweet Spots

We will start at the top. Her face and head are covered in hot spots.  You can gently touch her almost anywhere on her face.  Dragging your fingertips might be something she enjoys and turns her on.  Lips are an obvious area to pay attention to.  Kiss her all over her face.  Paying attention to her earlobes and behind her ears as well.

Her neck deserves special attention.  Kissing and touching her neck is a real turn on.  Some women like being grabbed and or choked.  Discuss this with her before you try it.  Communicating is very important!  There is a small part of this post about choking.  However, the neck is typically a very erogenous zone.

Her Extremities Erogenous Zones

Think of all the places we typically protect.  The wrist, the crook of the elbow the backs of her knees, the shoulders.  These are all erogenous zones.  During foreplay, kiss her in these areas to get her motor running.  These are her hot spots.  Your partner may dislike some touching in some areas, so you need to pay attention to her reaction to your actions.

During sex, grabbing her wrists is sometimes a turn on.  Be careful with this.   You need to have communicated about this before so that she isn’t surprised by being restrained.  Again, communication is key.  It’s not all about being rough either.  Being gentle during sex is just as awesome and fun as being rough!

Her Core

The erogenous zones on her core (except for the genitals) are breasts her back.  Touch and kiss all around her breasts.  Don’t make a b-line for her nipples.  Everything in due time.  Kiss and caress under and around her breasts.  Gently touch, using your knowledge of how she responds to lead you.  Let her guide you without her consciously having to guide you.

If she’s lying on her front, then her back is where you are going to work.  Kiss your way down her back, paying attention to the area right under her butt.  This area called the gluteal fold is sensitive.

Genital Erogenous Zone

This is the obvious one.  This, like her breasts, you cannot just go at it.  Warm up!  The inside of the thighs, the labia, the clit are all there to play with.  Kiss them, touch them gently, lick them.  When you and your partner discussed this, she should have discussed this with you.  Pay attention to her reactions to what you are doing to guide you.  This is universal advice.

In summary, remember to watch your partner for cues as to how to please her.  Know the areas of her body that are more sensitive than others.  Learn what she likes, and do that.  Often.  Lots of these places you can touch in public without raising an eyebrow too.  Her shoulders, her wrists, the small of her back are all totally acceptable in mixed company.

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So, once she’s naked, you should never stop touching her. I’m going to assume that this session is not a quickie. But, outside of that one caveat, my assumption is that you don’t have a time constraint. Momentum is your friend when you are building up to the actual fuck. Touch can and will build this before you even touch an erogenous zone.

 

Drag your fingers across her body. Bring your hands along her face and touch her ears and behind them. If you are into bondage, drag your fingers down her arms and let her play with your dick while you cuff her and lock her into the restraint. Be careful not to touch her in places that tickle her, that would ruin the momentum and foreplay we are building.

I’m assuming that you have communicated with your significant other about what you both expect. If not, you need to do that. Several posts about communication for details on that are at the link above.

Since you know what her likes and dislikes are, use that. Make sure you are following the details of what she discussed with you. Don’t touch the places she tells you she doesn’t like being touched at. Touching her is, in my opinion, the most important part of foreplay. Touching and talking.

I’ve talked about touching before, and ideas on how to do that in foreplay. Women don’t work like must us men do, ready to go at the drop of a hat. We have to warm them up, and get the motor running. Touching is a tool we can use to do this. Make her beg, dripping wet and ready for us. I cannot imagine having a dry pussy and trying to fuck. That just sounds painful for her!

We’ve talked about using your fingers. Now we should discuss other things we can touch them with to keep things interesting. Temperature play is something some couples venture into. Drag a piece of ice over her nipples, then gently suck on them. The temperature change is a turn on. Use things with different textures, like a feather tickler or a Wartenburg pinwheel to vary things. I’ve used a pizza wheel before, and a silicon basting brush too. Makeup brushes also give her a different stimulus as well.

Learning to touch and caress her is something we all need to learn to do. Sex is not a race, take your time. Never stop touching her once her skin is exposed. Foreplay is the beginning of the buildup for her, and is possibly more important than the sex itself. It can and does make or break the experience for her. You can see in the picture above, her lips are engorged and she’s clearly turned on. You can almost hear her moan from his touch.

The goal of every sex session or scene is mutual pleasure. Knowing how to get your partner there is, in my opinion, the most important part of the sex act in it’s totality. Meaning foreplay is THAT important. Sex is always fun, but sex with a partner that’s mad with desire and begging for your dick, that should be the goal every single time!

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