Where do you want to cum? That’s a question we all like to hear from time to time. There is a little bit of submission in the question. It also gives us the opportunity to control where we cum. You should already know what your partner is comfortable with before it comes up in the middle of the session. You should also know the birth control situation so you know if a creampie is OK or not.
Facials
Giving a facial is a dominant act. You stop fucking, and you tell her you want to cum on her face. You both maneuver into a position where you are over her (dominance). One of you has to continue to stimulate your dick (hands or mouth) until you are ready to cum, then you aim and let loose. Some women really enjoy this, some tolerate it, and some hate it. Cum is difficult to get out of hair, and burns the eyes (or so porn has told me). There’s also cleanup, which is something you should be prepared for.
Body Shots
Cumming on her body feels like marking her. It feels like “This is mine, I have marked her as mine”. In my experience, it also turns her on to watch you cum on her. It is very satisfying to cumo on her stomach or back (depending on the position you are in!) and watch your cum mark her. Have her pump your dick with her hands to finish you onto her body. Deciding where do you want to cum on her is fun too. Cum on her breasts, her stomach, her ass, her back, or her feet.
Inside Her
In Her Mouth
Cumming in her mouth is another dominant act in my opinion. I think there’s an argument saying that having the penis in your mouth gives you the power, but I would say giving a blowjob is a submissive act. Everyone will have their own opinion on this. A lot of people do this because it’s pregnancy safe, and requires little cleanup. This is my opinion, but spitters are quitters.
In Her Ass
Cumming in her ass obviously takes preparation for anal. Assuming all that has been done, cumming in her ass is something that feels incredible. In my experience the orgasms from anal for her are much stronger than vaginal ones. When you are asked “Where do you want to cum?”, you can reply with something really aggressive dominant like “I want to fill your ass up”. From what I’ve read online some women can feel your dick pulsing inside their ass, and some cannot. When we have anal sex, my partner can feel my dick pulsing and loves it. There is a bit of cleanup involved with anal in general, adding a little bit of ejaculateisn’t going to change that.
In Her Pussy
When you are comfortable with your partner and you are comfortable with the birth control methods being used, this is the Holy Grail. Biologically, we are wired to cum in our partners pussy. She will feel you pulsing, you will feel her squeezing and pumping. Having orgasms together is incredible, and I would hope that everyone gets to experience that in their lifetime. Cleanup isn’t bad depending on your ejaculate volume.
Being asked where you want to cum is hot. Sex is messy, cum is messy. Preparation is one of the keys to great sex. As always, if you have a question or a comment please feel free to contact us on the Contact Us page! We love feedback!
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