Talking about sex seems to be a stumbling block seen a lot online. Reading through social media comments, you can see people struggling with questions. Most of these can be answered with “talk to your partner”. But how and when, and how do you keep your feelings from getting hurt? There’s other posts on here […]
Communication
Fun with Cameras, Start Recording!
Recording your sexy-times can be great for “use” later, and can add a new dynamic to your sex sessions. Getting your partners permission is the first step to any good recording session. After that, there’s setup, storage, privacy, and if you’d like to share the recordings or not. This will also start a good line […]
The Best Help For Your Submissive in SubSpace
The best help for your submissive in subspace is to communicate openly about submission, and earn and keep her trust. Subspace is a mentality that your submissive partner can get into where she has submitted, completely. We will define subspace, then discuss subspace as a submissive. We will follow that with some of the dangers […]
Being The Best Listener You Can Be
Being the best listener you can be isn’t just about sex. We will frame most of this discussion through that lense, but this discussion goes beyond that scope. Listening to your partner is more than just hearing her words. It’s about listening critically to the spoken and the unspoken. It’s about the totality of the […]
What To Do When You Aren’t Getting What You Need
What to do when you aren’t getting what you need in a relationship. That’s a hard problem. But with some work, it’s something that can strengthen the relationship. I’ve read several questions on several websites about men expressing to their partner that they need to do more. The problem is that there’s no instruction beyond […]