Power exchange and free use are two concepts that can be a significant part of a consensual, healthy BDSM dynamic. Power exchange refers to the exchange of power between two individuals in a sexual relationship. Free use involves one partner being available for sexual use at any time. However, it is important to approach these […]
Dom/Sub
Dom/Sub is a specific aspect of BDSM. Men are not always dominant, and women are not always submissive. It is important that both parties know and understand the dynamic and the boundaries set by their partner. Distinguish soft versus hard boundaries and a verbal and non-verbal way to communicate them.
Consent, SSC, and its role in BDSM
Consent in a BDSM relationship Consent is a crucial aspect of any sexual encounter. This is especially true in the BDSM community, where power dynamics and role-play are central to the experience. BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, and Masochism. It encompasses a wide range of activities and practices that involve consensual exploration of power, […]
DIY Hidden Hanging Mount with Smoke Detector
Having a hidden hanging mount in your ceiling can be a secret source of fun! Put thought into where to place the hook, how to build the hook into the ceiling, and what you can do with the hook once it’s in the ceiling. We’ve discussed BDSM in the past, and this will touch on […]
The Best Help For Your Submissive in SubSpace
The best help for your submissive in subspace is to communicate openly about submission, and earn and keep her trust. Subspace is a mentality that your submissive partner can get into where she has submitted, completely. We will define subspace, then discuss subspace as a submissive. We will follow that with some of the dangers […]
How to Start a Dom/Sub Relationship by Communicating
How to start a dom/sub relationship by communicating clearly. Communication between a dominant and a submissive partner needs to be open and clear. This communication starts by watching your partner. If she is always doing what you ask her to do, or answering “yes” to your questions while in bed then this may be a […]