Talking about sex seems to be a stumbling block seen a lot online. Reading through social media comments, you can see people struggling with questions. Most of these can be answered with “talk to your partner”. But how and when, and how do you keep your feelings from getting hurt? There’s other posts on here […]
Communication
Communication is the most important thing I want you to understand about your sex life. It's important to talk, communicate with your partner about your needs, wants, and desires. It's important to listen to your partners needs, wants, and desires as well. Communication during sex, after sex, before sex. Look, we all know sex is important, and it should be treated with the gravity of its importance in the relationship.
Fun with Cameras, Start Recording!
Recording your sexy-times can be great for “use” later, and can add a new dynamic to your sex sessions. Getting your partners permission is the first step to any good recording session. After that, there’s setup, storage, privacy, and if you’d like to share the recordings or not. This will also start a good line […]
How to Start a Dom/Sub Relationship by Communicating
How to start a dom/sub relationship by communicating clearly. Communication between a dominant and a submissive partner needs to be open and clear. This communication starts by watching your partner. If she is always doing what you ask her to do, or answering “yes” to your questions while in bed then this may be a […]
Being The Best Listener You Can Be
Being the best listener you can be isn’t just about sex. We will frame most of this discussion through that lense, but this discussion goes beyond that scope. Listening to your partner is more than just hearing her words. It’s about listening critically to the spoken and the unspoken. It’s about the totality of the […]
What Is The Right Frequency And Duration For Sex?
What is the right frequency and duration for sex? This is going to be dependant on many factors. But, the best frequency is often enough that both parties are satisfied. The best duration is long enough that both you and your partner are happy. Sexual frequency is something that is a hotly debated subject. The […]