Now (or Anytime) is a Great Time for a Quickie!

Now (or anytime) is a great time for a quickie! Really, anytime is a great time for a quickie. As our relationships mature and time begins to get tight, we all need to make time for our sex lives. Sometimes long sex sessions have to take a back seat. A quickie can satisfy your sexual needs when sex takes a backseat to life. Here are a few things to keep in mind about quickies:

• Oral only quickies are a good alternative depending on time
• Skirts are made for quickie sex
• Shower sex
• Don’t get undressed, only expose what you need to expose
• Beds, counters and tables tend to be “fuck height” so use them

As with all my posts, I’m going to first talk about communication. It’s important to communicate with your woman about sex and needs and wants, as the linked blog post says. But, the discussion should also talk about frequency and timing as well. I read something a long time ago that stuck with me, it said “Sex is like money and air. When you have enough, it’s no big deal, but when you don’t, it’s a BIG DEAL”. So, let’s talk about quickie opportunities and how to take advantage of them, and how to turn your lady on so she’s ready to be taken.

It should all start with the way you normally communicate. If it’s texting than sext her. If it’s both of you in the same house, casually tell her what you are going to do. In my blog posts about sex, like the bondage post, there is a lot of focus on never taking your fingers off of her body. With a quickie, there’s no time for that much setup. So you have to turn her on and get her running other ways. Communicate to her that you want her. Be specific, and have a plan. If there are kids in the house, plan for them to watch a movie at XX time. Then start a few hours before by touching your lady as she walks by. Stop her in her tracks and tell her you need to be inside her.

As the time approaches, start sharing little pieces of the plan with her. Tell her about an hour before that at XX time, she needs to be ready to get fucked. Send her a message that is suggestive or a short description of what you are going to do to her. Something like “I’m going to bend you over the bed and have my way with you”. It doesn’t have to be super descriptive. Just show her repeatedly that you are thinking of little else. You need her. You desire her. She’ll be turned on. She’ll be wet and ready by the time the movie starts.

The kids are busy. The movie is playing. But you know you don’t have very long, so lets get to it. Depending on how you played your cards, she should be very ready for you to fuck her by this point. usually, I talk about how foreplay is very important, and it is. But sometimes you just need to fuck. Now is that time. My advice is to unleash your inner beast. Stand behind her, pull her pants and underwear down as you grab her boobs from behind with your other hand. Then push her down onto the bed and rub your hard cock on her wet pussy. Now that you know she’s hot and ready, push yourself into her.

You should know your partner well enough by now to know what turns her on. Knowing what she needs to get going is very important, you want her to be as satisfied as you are.

Quickies can be fun and spontaneous too. Buildup is important. But it’s always best to have a little sexual tension. If you are like me with a high libido, then you are almost always telling your woman how hot she is and how much you need her anyway. So communicating that isn’t something I have to do often. My SO has a high libido as well. It’s a great thing when we only have a few minutes we can literally pound one out. We’ve done it with a house full of people, slipped away and both had a quick orgasm. For us, it’s foreplay for the next time we can have a longer session.

I don’t want anyone to think that sex can’t be spontaneous and fun for everyone involved. There’s no reason to think that you can’t grab a quickie anytime you think there’s time. Rooms have doors for a reason, set boundaries with the kids, and have some fun. Just remember, now (or anytime) is a great time for a quickie!

For further research, here is a good article from Men’s Journal about quickies. As always, if you have questions, check out our Contact Page and shoot us a message. We’d love to hear from you!