Let’s talk bondage, tie those ladies to the bed!

Let’s talk bondage, tie those ladies to the bed and go to town! My SO and I are into to bondage. We’ve both only experienced it together, not with anyone else. As a result, we are fully exploring what we like and what we don’t like. Turns out, in the bedroom I’m very dominant and she is submissive. As a result of this, these posts will be from my point of view and will be about what works for us.

As we talk bondage, it doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated. You can get an inexpensive under bed set that allows you to tie your SO to the bed for under $40. Most of these sets come with cuffs that detach, allowing you to cuff the hands together as well. Bondage sex doesn’t have to be anything rough, but it is submissive on the part of the one being tied down. She has to trust you completely, and you have to earn that trust.

Sensual Bondage

So again, let’s talk bondage, tie those ladies to the bed. Getting her tied down doesn’t have to be a clinical event. Place the bondage cuffs around her, kissing and touching every exposed part as you do. She should be naked before you tie her down so you don’t have to undo anything to strip her. As you cuff her and connect the cuffs to the restraints, gently rub and kiss each part as you go. Touch her as you move. Talk to her about what you are doing and where you are going. Tell her she’s a good girl (or whatever your dynamic allows). Enjoy every inch of her skin. Show her through touch what she makes you feel inside when you see her.

Don’t make it too tight, you want her to move some, and you want her legs to be able to come up so you can fuck her. But keep touching her, staying close enough that she can almost touch you, or only touch your dick. Play with her pussy some. So if you have a vibrator, turn it on and lay it on her clit. Play with and kiss her breasts and nipples. Her body is yours, place your hand on her neck and watch her head lift in response to expose her neck.

Stimulate Her Bound Body

There’s all sorts of things you can do now. She should be begging for stimulation. Touch her everywhere, never take your fingers off her when moving around your prey. Wet and dry things, kiss her randomly. Feed her your dick (if you are kneeling by her head). It’s important that you don’t stop touching or stimulating her. Your goal is to make her beg for your dick.

There should be a point where you can’t take it any more and neither can she. She will beg to be fucked. So, please her, maybe after teasing for a second. Slide your cock along her wet pussy. Then push it into her. It’s important that you enjoy the teasing too. This is for BOTH of you to find pleasure. Relish in her reactions to your touch, to your dick. Fill that pussy up with your cock until she’s pulling against the restraints. She’s going to want to touch you and feel you cumming in her, don’t disappoint.

There’s lots of ways you can tie her to the bed depending on the setup you buy. Use your imaginations and see what feels good and is fun for you both! Don’t limit yourself to the examples, have fun. So, look up other ways you both might be interested in trying things.

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