Reading opinions online about positions will make you think no one, or very few, like missionary. Missionary is “the default” position when you think about sex. That doesn’t make it boring! Missionary sex is intimate. Also, it can allow you varying levels of control. Missionary even allows for anal. Missionary is my favorite, personally.
There have been studies done about missionary sex. They state that the missionary position (they refer to is at VVCP) triggers oxytocin production. Also, it maximizes skin to skin and nipple stimulation.
Far From Boring
Missionary is not boring. Missionary allows you to view and enjoy her whole body. Some people refer to it as boring, but it is not. This position allows for many options. For example, kneeling and holding her legs up. Or, you can lie down on top of her. It also allows you to hold her hands above her head and kiss her while you fuck her. There are always options when you are having sex. Missionary affords many “sub” positions.
Kneeling at her hips, you can be between her legs. This will give you control of her legs. You can lift them up, or you can lie on top of her. Personally, lying on top is the most intimate. Being able to kiss and feel her whole body under me. But, her being able to grab at you, that’s the best. Lifting her legs up gives you different angles for both your pleasure. With her legs up, you can put them together and give her knees and hips a break.
Intimacy
Intimacy is a big part of missionary position. Being able to look in her eyes and connect with you feels amazing. Intimacy is something that is underrated. Most people talk about the physical part of sex, but the emotional is just as important. Being able to emotionally connect with your partner is very important. While there is an emotional connection at some level in most sex, I would argue that missionary is the strongest. Facing each other, and being able to kiss and feel not just the sex but kissing and holding her.
Control
Missionary position offers you a lot of control. As with all posts on this blog, this is assuming you and your partner have communicated. You can pin her arms down while you are on top of her. You can control her body with yours. There is a lot of nonverbal communication that happens when you are having sex. Because you are face to face, a lot of nonverbal communication can happen. For me, controlling my partner is half the fun. I know it’s not for everyone, but it’s something we enjoy.
Anal
Missionary position allows for anal sex. You partner can pull her legs up and expose her ass to you. Being prepared for anal is never a bad idea. Having anal sex this way allows you to still have the intimacy of missionary with the pleasure of anal sex. Anal might not be for everyone, and that’s OK. But this is a very intimate way to experience anal.
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