How to react to her orgasmic reactions is something we should all know. Some times, the emotions and feeling are overwhelming and your partner may go silent, laugh, cry, shudder, or shake. Orgasms can be really powerful, be prepared for our partners reactions when they hit!
How Orgasms Feel
You should be able to tell when your partner has an orgasm. In general, if she doesn’t know or isn’t sure, then it likely didn’t happen. I realize I might catch shit for saying that, but in my experience, if your partner can’t tell it hasn’t happened. When your partner has a good orgasm, her pussy with tighten and pulse around your dick. She might vocalize and shut her eyes. Some women are squirters as well.
Orgasmic Reactions
Orgasmic reactions can be really strong. We need to learn how to react to her orgasmic reactions. Laughing, crying, shaking and shuddering are all things that can happen. If you aren’t prepared for it, they can be shocking. It’s always a surprise when everything is euphoric, and suddenly your partner is crying. Expecting a strong reaction will help you be ready, even if there’s not one. The orgasmic reactions like laughing can be such a surprise that it might stop your ability to climax. The Guardian has a story about that exact situation.
Crying during an orgasm has a name, it’s called “crymaxing”. Knowing WHY your partner is crying should help alleviate any concerns it may cause. PubMed has a study where all these reactions are called “peri-orgasmic phenomena”. It’s from the cascade of hormones that the brain produces. Flooding with dopamine and oxytocin. There’s a whole reddit thread about some women relaying that it happens to them regularly.
Orgasmic reactions can cause shuddering, stiffening of her entire body, loss of control of her bladder, inability to speak or walk. It’s fun to learn about these things with your partner if she doesn’t know.
How to React to her Orgasmic Reactions
In the reddit post listed above, you can read about a variety of women having crymax orgasms. You should read your partner and see what they want you to do. Aftercare is something we’ve discussed before here. You should ask your partner what she wants, and hopefully she knows how she’s going to react to her orgasm. That should help guide you to your reaction to her orgasmic reaction.
If she’s not able to anticipate her reaction to her orgasm, you need to be ready with some ideas. Lie down next to her and hold her, put a hand on her to remind her you are there, or just lie there and gently touch. Every woman will have a different need during this time, so you need to pay attention to her reactions to what you are trying.
Conclusion
In the end, it’s all about being there for your partner. So, anticipate, be prepared, and have fun! As always, if there’s something that you want to let us know, use the Contact page to get ahold of us!
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